I started Conversations with Kyle because I am seeing a decline in human connection in society.
My background is the training ground for the skills I bring to our partnership. My 14 years as a painter taught me the patience of preparation – the understanding that the quality of any finish depends entirely on the rigorous work done beneath the surface. This is how I approach your internal world: we do the prep work so the change is long-lasting.
My time in market gardening taught me how to read cycles and growth, ensuring we don’t just force change, but nurture the right environment for it to take root. Later, as a client liaison officer, I mastered the ability to remain a steady presence in the face of crisis, a trait I use to help you navigate your own high-pressure environments with absolute clarity and confidence.
My ability to guide you through your own transitions is sharpened by immersive work in the men’s personal development space. By participating in, facilitating, and leading men’s circles, I have developed a sub surface understanding of the common weights men carry. My experience staffing rites of passage trainings and facilitating intensive online programs – culminating in immersive weekend retreats. This has taught me how to hold a container for deep work.
Beyond professional shifts, my most profound growth came from navigating the challenges of personal experience. I have felt the deep distress of relationship breakdown and the subsequent reconstruction of my own internal world. These moments became my most significant catalysts for breakthrough. They taught me that an open mind during distress can turn a collapse into a complete turnaround, expanding my capacity for emotional intelligence and allowing me to live authentically with courage and compassion.
The goal isn’t to overhaul your life; it’s to help you feel present in it again.
It’s about becoming the man you know you are capable of being, even when things feel heavy. By strengthening your emotional intelligence, you gain the tools to lead your life with more intention, connection, and stability.
If you’re ready to stop carrying the load alone and want to explore a more centred and fulfilling way forward, I am here to walk that path with you. Click the button below to book in a FREE strategy call.
In our culture, men are often expected to be the “steady hand” at all times. We are taught to provide and protect, but we aren’t always given the space to navigate the internal weight that comes with those roles. This is where emotional intelligence becomes more than just a concept – it becomes a tool for survival and growth.
It is important to me to cultivate connection with others that is founded on authenticity, freedom of expression, non-judgement, and acceptance. I don’t see you as a “problem” to be solved or a project to be fixed. I see you as a man who cares deeply about his future, and who might simply need to develop the emotional agility and self-regulation required for self-exploration and empowered, authentic living.
Learning healthier ways to communicate, through my work and personal interest has given me a way to connect with others authentically. This results in more connectivity and attunement with others, deepening and fortifying relationships. Just like the layers of an onion, we can continually deepen our own experience, and our connection with others.
To better serve the men I work with, I have committed myself to, evidence-based training:
Relationship Support for Men: Level 1 Training in Gottman Method: While I focus on individual work, this provides the evidence-based tools to help you navigate and repair the dynamics within your home and life.
Men’s Leadership: Leader and Facilitator in I-group (men’s circle) with the Mankind Project, supporting men in deep self-exploration and masculine confidence. This space is also a support for my own growth and integrity, which I serve you with.
The Internal Landscape: Certified Shadow Work Coach and Trauma-Informed Certificate holder, focusing on pattern recognition and managing the nervous system.
Authentic Relating: Completed Foundations of Authentic Relating, enabling me to model and teach the skills of high-resonance, honest connection.